After dinner on Memorial Day, we raided the pantry my mom had geniusly stocked with s’more ingredients. There were old-fashioned grahams, bars of good dark chocolate, and the most enormous marshmallows I have ever seen. They were double, triple, maybe quadruple the size of regular-sized marshmallows. I was intimidated-they were massive-but they turned out to roast into the most perfectly golden s’more fillers, since they held their own a bit better beside the embers of the grill. They burst into full-blown marshmallow fires only rarely.
At the camp I went to (an all-girls camp with uniforms and no electricity in the bunks and the place where I spent some of the happiest summers of my life), every Sunday night we had a campfire. Some Sundays that meant hot dogs, other Sundays it was burgers by the beach, but it always culminated in 180 girls gathering around the campfire to roast marshmallows before singing every campfire song known to man in a not-quite-right harmony punctuated by my loud, off-key tones. And every Sunday, just before we lined up to crown our roasting branches with marshmallows, the head counselor delivered a lecture.